At 6:54 A.M. on a Tuesday morning, fifth of August of the year 2008. I randomly stumbled upon something that saved me, changed me. A poster on a mainly, usually video game related message board posted a message in a topic he created which was titled "The One":
"There is no such thing. There is no girl that is perfect for you. No girl is perfect. Girls are people too. There is no one that you will immediately fall in love with. There are people that you are more compatible with, but as in all relationships, ones with girls require work. There is no fairy tale romance. There are no Hollywood endings. It does no one any good for you to put these unrealistic expectations on your significant other and your relationship.
She is a person. She has flaws. Not recognizing this is not healthy. Don't place her on a pedestal. She's a person like you and I. Don't expect to be in love at first sight. Don't assume because you suddenly get the warm fuzzies for a girl that she's the one. You will screw up good relationships and opportunities chasing this fancy. Girls are just like you and me. They have faults like you and me. Being with them is a lot like being friends with a guy. Relax and realize this. Once you stop chasing that unreal dream that you have you'll be able to open your eyes and see what is right in front of you."
Izyan Syairah, finally.
I'm done.
Afan.
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